"I love my culture, I do. I just don't understand why we think it's okay to call people fat to their faces. That person might laugh along with you and agree, but you don't know what's really going on inside."
would you feel comfortable using those excuses to someone who became anorexic because of it? bulimic? depressed? suicidal?
I guess what i'm trying to say is...
Words are powerful, let's use them
to uplift people instead!