What would you do in this situation?
Last week, My bf and I along with Claudia and Lawrence (Lemon Pie couple) went to a party called "Pink in the City" which was a Breast Cancer Fundraiser. In order to save money on gas and parking, we all decided to take the train downtown. In the train, Claudia and I were together against one wall while the boys were holding on to the pole in the middle of the train.
Suddenly, Claudia and I saw a bunch of (perhaps almost drunk) girls taking a picture with my bf... and the girl straight up had her arm around his body! UHMMM EXCUSE ME! Me being a bit awkward and shy, I wasn't really sure what to do. Do i tap her on the shoulder and say "hi, that's my boyfriend".... Do i just stare at her? ... Do i secretly join in on the picture? My bf being a bit awkward and shy as well, he didn't know what to do either. haha! This isn't the first time it's happened... bf has looked to me many times to "save him" but i just kinda stand on the sideline thinking of what i could do... and by that time the moments over. hahaha!
What would YOU do?
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27 comments:
Ahh geez, so awkward! It'd be funny if you joined in on the picture pulling some ridiculous face ... or just went up to him and planted a big one on him which completely ruins the picture (not only for her camera but her picture of getting with your bf)! But on a brighter note, both you couples look adorable and stylish and I am SO stoked to see the finished photos, the photoshoot looks amazing!! :)
I asked my wife your question--she said if it was us, it would be my responsibility to get out of the girl's grip and include her (my wife) in any conversation or picture. But even though she says it would all be on me, I have a feeling she would find her way to my side quickly. =) She'd probably ask me if I knew the girl.
In your situation, I think doing nothing counts as being charitable to those poor girls--they would have gotten horribly depressed if they'd seen what an amazing GF W has.
Ugh girls like that make me sick! Even though I'm shy and awkward myself, I wouldn't be so nice about it... I would get all up in their faces since I become a total bitch when it comes to other girls acting dumb, drunk or not! -_-;
Ugggh. That's horrible. I'd probably say something to them cuz I'd probably get irked at them...maybe something along the lines of "Umm, excuse me, could you keep your hands to yourself and not on my boyfriend?" lol! :P
That actually happened once with an ex. We were at a party and I was across the room from him, talking to a friend, and some girl started chatting up my ex. At that time I was a bit mad at him (no idea why) so I just sent him this major death glare from across the room...and he noticed! lol. It was almost comical the way he looked at me, gave me the 'I'm not doing anything!' look and just walked away from the girl. lol!!
PS - A strange guy putting his hands on a girl (any girl, but especially mine!), would require immediate intervention. Several times I've pretended a girl was a friend of mine to help get her out of an uncomfortable situation--and once it was an older lady.
I won't know what to do either, maybe pull my bf away from them, LOL..
Hmmm...the weird thing is it never happen to my boyfriend. now and then, i will get looks from the opposite sex and my boyfriend will just put his arm around me to help me out. so i guess if it does happen to him one day, i'll do the same.
I would wedged myself between him and her, have the picture taken and said "sorry, he's my boyfriend". Just be prepared for witty comebacks
Also, he has the right to take her hands off his body, he should just remember that for next time :)
I guess it's hard to react properly, both of you were caught off-guard and while you were contemplating what to do, it was already too late. Those girls were rude, but they didn't care. But I guess girls can be forgiven in this situation. Imagine if it was the other way round? A bunch of guys around you and one putting his arm around your neck? Now that may be something else, right? :)
i would do what nikolett said or maybe even try to get in the picture then while its being taken, flick the camera off, of course all while planting a kiss on my lover, perfect combo! XD
oh & i saw your photos up with face paints on, its cute! =D
Whoah, those girls surely have some guts XD I agree with Nikolett, you should've joined them in the photo :D
Oh that's so awkward! I hate it when people get crazy like that in a train or on a bus...it's a tight and crowded space to start with, no need to make it more awkward!
LOL, I'd just laugh at my boyfriend and make fun of him after haha!
Lol, i would've been like "b*tch get the hell off!" nah jk, I probably would've stared for a bit in disbelief and then looked at him to get himself out of the situation. That's just plain out rude lol but funny at the same time. I would've taken it as a compliment too that I have a fine looking man as a boyfriend lol.
I would be, "excuse me bitches, that's my man." hahaha
Word up, Andhari!
Well I dunno... I've had random chicks outrageously flirting with my (ex)boyfriend too and I was always kinda "Mehhh, whatever" about it.
omg lol... id probably do the same as you.. then get mad at the bf and "blame" him for it hahah
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Hi Kym!
That is totally awkward!!! I understand you... in retrospect it is infernal but I know how you feel at that time... Hmm... hope not again, but maybe your bf can say something!!! not you!!! But I can tell your bf is a really nice person ;)
Omg that would totally piss me off!! hahah I would go right up and put my arms around him, while simultaneously prying her grabby fingers off! I guess it is a compliment though meaning you have a pretty good lookin bf!
I would join in. I'm kinda brave like that... mark the territory is the name of the game.
Have a great week ahead Kym! xoxo
Awkward much? Hmmm..I've always been the shy type as well. But I think if that happened to my boyfriend and I was there to witness the whole thing I would have glared at the girl and raised my eyebrow at her.
By the way, you guys are such a good looking couple.
nice pic!
lol awkward situation.. i should say glare at them and join in the pic. but in reality I would have ended u like you did. standing on the sideline and still wondering what to do :S
I'm really jealous so...I would tell her quite abruptly to not touch my bf :p and if she refuses, cat fiiiight ! Jk, I would totally loose a fight ;p
I would have punched high kicked their faces in then hightail out of there.
Joking aside, I think I would have played along and be like "yeah..my boyfriend (stressing this) is hot, right?" just to let them girls know he's taken.
It's funny you asked this because last summer my ex and I were at a club for a party and this girl couldn't find any space to sit so she SAT ON HIS LAP (and she was wearing a super short dress) and I wanted to kill her. Good thing the ex quickly pushed her off while moving over to make a bit of room for her slut ass body. LOL.
Oh man, did you know that girl actually fondled Larry's tie too?
Don't worry, I glared at the chick's friend and Larry later told me that she told her drunk friend to get off your bf LOL
I think she was just as mortified as us!
Haha adventures
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